The reason is CurseForges' Launcher is missing the default Minecraft JAVA Arguments, without these will cause client lag such as judders or client lockups, commonly known as lag spikes. To fix CurseForge All the Mods 3 - Remix lag, do this:
- Open the CurseForge app
- Click Cog > Minecraft
- Add this to Additional Arguments
- Increase the Allocated Memory to modpack authors recommended settings
- Click the top-right
- Restart the All the Mods 3 - Remix, for no lag
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